Goals… or… What I Don’t Hear

Photograph: Old Winter Palace sunset, Luxor, 2005-10-04, © Nick Varacalli.It’s that time of year again when a young Nick’s mind turns to self-improvement and setting goals for the next year of my life.

My goals for this year, be healthy, be thoughtful, and be self-confident and self-content, went decently well. I’ll review those in a bit, and I’m assuming that my goals for this year will contain some leftovers and ongoing things.

So far my possible goals for next year include:

  • Be a good role model. Before acting, think… would I like my kid(s) to learn from this example? [N]
  • Work on our entertaining skills… want to do more than just hang out and veg. Not sure how well this’ll work with Alex around. [EVD]
  • Figure out how to split the bill equitably at restaurants. How to not run up the bill for others, and not be perceived as running up the bill for others. [DCE]
  • Arm twist people less. [DE]
  • Be more aware of ACLs for information and conversations. [DE].

That said, I’m open to suggestions for goals. Anything goes. Comment, anonymously if you want. Use a proxy server if you don’t want my web-server seeing your IP address.

I’m especially interested in goals relating to “What I don’t hear”. Things that I need to work on but am a bit blind to, either because I’m not there when people say things about me, or because when I am told these things, I choose not to hear or ponder them.

4 Responses to “Goals… or… What I Don’t Hear”

  1. Andy says:

    What do the bracketted letters after the goals mean?

  2. crammer says:

    similarly, what does “ACLs” mean?

    Anyway, Alex will give you an outlet for your need to entertain. As for entertaining your friends, Alex will take care of that too.

  3. Nick says:

    Andy: Who has suggested the goals.

    Crammer: Access Control Lists. i.e., be aware of who is allowed to hear what.

    Some additional possible goals:
    - Composure and grace. Keep your insides inside.

  4. crammer says:

    wear your heart on your sleeve and sometimes give away your shirt.
    i don’t believe in ACLs (thx for the definition btw) its easier for me NOT to keep track of what I’ve said to whom that way i don’t muddle my lies… :)
    that being said, there are some things i don’t discuss with just anybody and some things (usually confided by others) i just don’t discuss, so i guess those qualify as ACLs…

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