Not Like Me, Yet So Like Me
I’m angry / frustrated at myself for not going to a dance I really want to go to.
I am cowed by the possibility of a repeat of other dances where dancers have been angry / snippy at me while in a square.
Basically, I’ve stuck myself into the situation where I’ll only go to a C3A dance (i.e., dances at my highest level)
when I know the dancers are friendly / I know that people I’m scared of won’t be there.
I’m assuming this will last until I feel more confident at C3A.
A big part of my mind snarks at me, telling me that this is not a way for me to learn, or to feel confident about anything.
Old Friend
Met Chris M., an old friend that I had a falling out with about 12 years ago.
We did ice cream, coffee, and buskers in Harvard Square.
So much / little to say about it.
I guess I’m glad it’s done with.
This brings up the subject of how full, at least schedule-wise, my life is.
Makes me wonder how to balance the good a use of scarce resource (time, ability to be social).
Calling
I called for Late Nite at Tech Squares yesterday.
Did a tip, 10 sequences, of the A1 As Couples concept.
Notable calls included:
- As Couples, up to the middle and back (to groans)
- As Couples, Recycle (difficult)
- Girls are as Couples, Swing Thru
- Boys are As Couples, Grand Swing Thru
- As Couples, working with the square next to you, Load The Boat.
I was very happy with the call, and the dancers did it well.
I was a bit disappointed that we only had 3 squares as people had to leave to get sleep.
Mind you, it was the first time I really called to more than one square.
At first, I was sighting off only one square, which turned out to be one of the stronger ones.
I had to adjust and try to watch all of them.
Difficult when you’re reading off prepared sequences.
A secondary goal was to play different / interesting / atypical music.
Genres included dance, techno, grunge, metal, and rock.
It went much better than expected.
The songs seemed to work, and the dancers actually seemed to enjoy the music…
I wasn’t really expecting that.
I also played the music one song per sequence, flipping to the next one during / after
the promenade home. Next time if I have the time, I’ll mix it. Anyway,
the play list was:
- Jock Jams, Are You Ready For This
- This was the ‘square up’ song. No dancing to it.
- Darude, Sandstorm
- Techno.
- Nirvana, Come As You Are
- Grunge. The tempo was a bit laid back. Worked though.
- Amber, Sexual
- Clubby dancy. People were singing ‘li-da-di’, so I think it worked.
- Rammstein, Du Hast
- Pounding heavy metal. People let down their hair and head-banged.
Surprisingly, many people sang along.
- Pink, Get This Party Started
- Uhm… people were still headbanging… a holdover from the last song.
- Primal Scream, Rocks
- Just a fun rock song, no pun intended.
- Real McCoy, Run Away
- Good dancy song.
- Guns N’ Roses, Sweet Child Of Mine
- One of my explicit goals was to call to GNR.
I thought this might be overly self-indulgent, but people seemed to like it.
- Metallica, Enter Sandman
- So… someone, who I never thought would be a Metallica fan, was happy I played this.
Next time, it’s Motörhead covering this song, satisfying two goals: calling to
a speed metal band, and calling to a band with at umlaut in their name (sorry
Blue Öyster Cult and Mötley Crüe).
- AC/DC, Give The Dog A Bone
- Classic hard rock, with wonderfully adolescent lyrics.
I think, on the whole, people enjoyed it.
I got a bunch of constructive criticism for things to work on.
Mind you, I’m prolly going to ratchet way back on calling this year, hopefully to a few more late nite concept workshops like this one.
Preparation takes too much time.
Besides, enough people have expressed dismay at my calling / tried to dissuade me from doing it (not bitter).
Music to remember for next time:
- Bon Jovi, Livin’ On A Prayer
- Orgy, Blue Monday
- Adam Sandler, You Spin Me Right Round
- Ozzy Osbourne, Crazy Train
- Supergrass, Pumping On Your Stereo
- Toploader, Dancing In The Moonlight
- Billy Idol, Mony Mony
- Motörhead, Enter Sandman
No Input
I’m a bit disappointed about the lack of input / suggestions for goals for next year.
Seriously… y’all don’t want to me to be exactly the same next year… do you?
My list can’t have covered everything… I know I have introspective blind spots.